By Chaplain Mike
Note from CM: This article was originally posted on Dec. 2, 2009. As we prepare to mark Advent and Christmas again this year, I thought we might revisit it and discuss how our churches approach special seasons.
When I ministered in suburban evangelical churches (nine years in one as worship pastor), there were two times each year when I struggled most against the infiltration of American secular culture into the church. These two times also happened to be the main feasts of the church, Christmas and Easter.
One would think that, of all times in the year, Christians would keep these two holy seasons sacred, but what I have found is…
1. The way people approach these seasons is defined more by individual and family traditions than by church traditions.
In our busy and mobile society, the holidays are travelin’ times and family get-together times first and foremost. As a pastor and worship leader, I encouraged our people to follow the liturgical calendar to some extent. Inevitably however, we had to push special Christmas events earlier into December in order to successfully “compete†against family gatherings and programs. Or, we found that Holy Week and Spring Break (the true holiday?) conflicted, so that we almost always had to announce and celebrate the resurrection before commemorating when Jesus went to the Cross!
Christmas Eve and Good Friday services were usually poorly attended. Forget about planning additional gatherings or service opportunities during Advent or the time around Easter. The extra effort involved in putting together special ways of commemorating the great events of our faith seemed wasted when we considered how few would participate or attend.
2. Patterns of worship in some congregations vary little from the way worship is practiced during other parts of the year.
One pastor with whom I worked insisted that, except for some decorations and maybe a couple of different songs, worship on special days would be exactly the same as on any other Sunday. His reasoning was that more unbelievers would attend services on those days and that we should therefore show them what it is like all the time. He usually did not change his message but continued the Bible book series he was teaching, the band played mostly the same praise and worship songs, and the “feel†of the service was consistent with other Sundays.
I always thought he missed the point of worship, for one thing. And the importance of God’s family celebrating Jesus and his works in these special seasons. And the opportunity to use the seasons for the spiritual formation of believers. And the fact that we are primarily to reach unbelievers in the world, not in the worship services of the church.
In my experience in evangelicalism, whenever the church calendar has a face-off with the family calendar, school calendar, or community calendar, the church calendar usually loses.
I have had countless discussion with church leaders about this, and I wonder what you think.
Open Mic Discussion
How far should we go in accommodating culture? On the other hand, are there times when the church should simply insist that “this is what we do to fulfill God’s calling in Christ,†and exhort the people in our congregations to make the services of the church their priority? And if we do this, how do we avoid becoming legalistic or domineering over our congregations?