By Chaplain Mike
Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before. Then people who are not Christians will respect the way you live, and you will not need to depend on others.
• 1Thessalonians 4:11-12 (NLT)
This may be one of the most neglected texts in the New Testament regarding the Christian life.
The context finds the Apostle Paul encouraging the believers in Thessalonica to live out their faith in Christ “in a way that pleases God” (4:1). After instructing them in the matter of sexual purity (4:3-8), Paul turns to the subject of how Christians should love one another (4:9ff). He reminds them that it is God himself who teaches them to do this, that they are already experiencing this in their lives, that he has heard reports of their loving practices and he encourages them to keep it up.
When it comes to the “how” of loving others, the Apostle gives us 4:11-12 (the text above). I don’t know about you, but when I read his instructions, it’s a let-down. I’m kind of disappointed.
• In today’s church, we might have expected Paul to give a list of doable activities that one could perform on behalf of others to express love.
We have this thing about being “practical,” and we want to know the “steps” of “application.” We value creative ideas, instructions, a manual with directions to follow. We want to know which books to read, which videos to watch, which seminars to attend, which websites to consult, which counselor can help us make the breakthroughs we need to live this out more fully. Paul does not oblige.
• In today’s church, we might have expected Paul to give examples or tell a story that touches our hearts about how someone showed extraordinary, exemplary love for another, how a person showed sacrificial generosity toward another — perhaps an unworthy recipient — and how God blessed as a result.
Perhaps the person who received love opened his or her heart to Christ. Or maybe the person who sacrificed received back abundant blessings from the Lord for showing such love. Maybe a marriage was saved, a prodigal came home, a life turned around. Perhaps a video clip would be shown of people extending themselves in remarkable ways to serve and bless others. But Paul gives no such heart-tugging motivational example or story.
• In today’s church, we might have expected Paul to exhort us about being more involved in the life of the congregation.
After all, how can your love for others grow if you are not participating with them in the fellowship of the church? Are you attending church regularly? Are you in a Bible study, learning God’s Word with others? Are you in a small group, sharing your life and praying with others? Do you have an accountability group to help you keep your motives and actions in check, so that you are staying pure and living a life of holy love? Are you actively partnering with others in Kingdom service? Paul does not point out any of these things.
Paul’s encouragement, instead, must seem remarkably lackluster and ordinary from the point of view of those who invest so much in spiritual engineering and technology, motivational methods, and churchianity.
Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before. Then people who are not Christians will respect the way you live, and you will not need to depend on others.
• 1Thessalonians 4:11-12 (NLT)
• Live a quiet life.
• Mind your own business.
• Work with your hands.
The best way to show Christian love to others? It almost sounds like a prescription for a small, selfish life! Yet this is how the Apostle, by divine inspiration, encourages us to live.
Paul commends a life that is the very opposite of activist churchianity. Instead, he advocates the way of Christian vocation — Walk humbly and quietly with God. Don’t think it’s your job to change the world. Quit sticking your nose in everybody else’s business. Do your work and do it well. Let Christ’s love for others grow naturally out of that soil. Earn the respect of your neighbors over time as you live your life in Christ. Slow down. Get small. Run quiet. Go deep. Grow up. Keep on keeping on. Stand on your own two feet. Become a mature human being.
Not sexy at all. Kind of disappointing.
Maybe the video will be more practical.